The Hungry, Hungry Emo

Aug. 27, 2012 at 12:32am with 24,041 notes

Reblogged from s-eaminor

stuffingkit:

mooseham:

stuffingkit:

smok3-w33d-3rrd4y:

chubby-dreaded-adorable:

his cat.

is in the palm.

of his hand.

I don’t understand.

He. Must. Be. A. Chunky. Chaser.

But never in my life have I seen something as odd as this.

Actually it’s my cat. Actually he is a bf who loves his gf’s fat BOD. And you spelled majestic wrong. “But never in my life have I seen something as majestic as this.”

These two were in a program called

‘My big fat fetish’ Made my Channel 4 in england.

He is deliberately feeding her stupid amounts of unhealthy food to make her fatter.

I Love my chubby ladies, but i feel like what he is doing to her is really quite awful and unhealthy.

Okay, Now this is what I was waiting for. I love how automatically you can analyze the healthiness of our relationship after watching a CHANNEL 4 documentary I was in. I love how you, reblog this, to try and police my life and to try and demystify the meaning of the photo, as if it is something I HIDE. Like “HOLD UP EVERYONE, BEFORE WE START OPENING OUT MINDS AND APPRECIATING ALL LIFESTYLES READ THIS REAL QUICK” If you watched that doc, and all that you got out of it is OMG THIS GUY IS MAKING HER UNHEALTHY OMG then anything I say to you is pointless. Did you ever stop to think that maybe I have my own sexuality? That Feederism is apart of MY life? That it is my choice what I do with my body? When you say “omg HE IS DOING THIS” you are desexualizing me as a woman, you are taking away my choice in this and boiling it down to something that is being done to me. So first off all, here:

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Now let me educate you all of the people who are now questioning the validity of what I do and say and worst of all QUESTIONING MY RELATIONSHIPS POSITIVITY:

Feederism describes sexual relationships where both members obtain gratification from the gaining of body fat. Feederism refers to the acts of feeding, encouraging eating, or being served large quantities of food. Sexual pleasure is derived from the act of eating itself, and/or from the process of becoming fatter. Pleasure may be derived from specific changes to specific areas of the body.

It really is not that difficult to understand. The problem is that is makes you uncomfortable, you cant even fathom a situation where someone can actually be happy looking the way I do and feeling the way I feel. All you can do to cope with the heebie jeebies you get from judging me is assert your sad and confused little feelings into my life to try and correct me. And let’s be honest here, what does my body, my sexuality, my mental health mean to YOU.Absolutely nothing, So take your misguided deductions to someone who gives a fuck, because I refuse to stop being a fat fabulous freak that wants to eat the FUCK outta some cheesecake because it makes you, some rude little stranger, UNCOMFORTABLE.

And P.S I am not a “chubby lady”

I’m Fat.

And that is okay.

My sexuality is mine and I choose to share it with a partner who gets off to the same things I do.

Kit, you are just perfect~!!!
I wish I could ask you questions…idk if that sounds rude or not….i don’t mean it that way at all.
I love this, y’all are so cute together♥

Man, I don’t even approve of feeding as a fetish and I’m annoyed.

1; the picture depicts what is clearly a happy couple (which, true, can be misleading, but srsly, you’re gonna ASSUME every relationship is abusive?)

2; you cannot even remotely guess from the picture that the couple has an unusual sexual dynamic (same as with ANY pic of any person or couple or group or two guys, a moose and six chairs).

3; so… you saw them on tv in a show about this particular fetish, so you *are* vaguely aware of their unusual preference and that’s what bothers you? you’re bothered by the fact that this couple derives sexual pleasure from a feeder/eater dynamic? why? how does it affect you? are you one of those people who wretches at the thought of two men fucking like monkeys, too? WHY. double u to the aych to the WHY.

What on earth do the things loving consensual people do in the privacy of their home have to do with you?

Now, the reason I don’t approve of this fetish is because, to *ME* it’s not healthy. But it has nothing to do with me. I choose not to engage in this activity. that’s all there is to it. I don’t get any other say. (the only reason i’m pointing it out is to illustrate my point).

Why am I rambling about this? Because it frustrates me to no end when people think that something people do sexually is an issue. as long as no one gets hurt (against their will), it’s fine.

How is being fed large amounts of food different that a healthy D/s relationship where the D inflicts (desired) pain on the (consenting) s? They LIKE it. That’s all that matters.

It doesn’t affect me. If doesn’t affect you. It doesn’t affect Obama, Romney or Abraham Lincoln in any way. It only affects them and how happy they are.

Just. Don’t.

Son, just don’t.